Throughout their whole lives people try to find themselves. This is a quest focused not only on your essence but also on the others. The man tries to see themselves reflected in the others and to meet their moods, wishes, customs. The man is looking for security and love from the person next to them before they have managed to find the same in themselves. 

The sensible meeting of two people creates closeness and understanding or can result in rejection. To feel that you do not like somebody, although you do not know this person very well, is probably a result of the intuitive rejection of this person.

Sometimes you can meet somebody for the first time and to accept them as if you have known each other for many years. In the quest for the other one, you find yourself. You want to see the same reflections, interests and desires in the others and at the same time the opposing characters attract you.